To become a real person , yes indeed we need  the distress of failure, setback, struggle , effort, development.

If one can understand this, then one no longer sees God  as cruel , who asks that we develop through accepting difficulties and solving those . We have to embrace our tasks with a yearning love , because it is through them that we are borne, we manage to find our way out.

Father Csaba

translated by dr k.e.