A person can never see oneself as a whole completely , only parts of oneself:we have body parts that we can never get a glance of , perhaps just in a mirror , but this is only a picture not reality. One needs the impartial “eyes” of another person , that mirrors Jesus Christ’s merciful glance but one that does not play down evil . Our own eyes can be lenient, apologetic , but can also be cruel,merciless and concentrating only on disgrace, hideousness .