In order to mature , to become an adult we indeed need the anguish, the distress of failure, struggle , endeavour , to find a way out. If one can understand this, then one no longer perceives God as cruel , who asks us that by accepting the difficulties, finding of solutions we progress.
I cannot imagine anything more important , than for man to address his Creator , and in their heart of hearts experience that He replies to him.
Father Csaba,
translated by dr k.e.