We would have to point out the steps of the way leading to happiness : the man who is happy is the one who can love truly, with a pure heart. . That man who is joyful, is the one who can forgive. That man who is joyful , who can happily be kindhearted, and decide wisely . If we would show our children this way , perhaps they would discover more easily that the “yes” , that we pledge on the way of love, is an important milestone on the way leading to happiness .