Love is the backbone of my life, the beautiful green tree, my words , my deeds , my plans, my relations are the glittering ornaments , the delicious sweets. The ornaments are important as without them the tree is not a Christmas tree, but it is quite certain that my life without love is only a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. Without love marriage is not valid , it is meaningless to take hold of someone’s hand.