It is great to sit down , to meditate, to reflect on the secrets of God and this world, quietly adoring the Infinity . Searching , scrutinising the Lord’s message on the pages of the Holy Scripture. But it is wonderful to get going and bend down to a small child in need ! It is a holy act to take, accept that child into our lives, and to share all the material-intellectual-spiritual beautiful and good values that God in His overabundant love gave us. 
I encourage you lovingly , be not afraid to decide by life, dare to decide by the side of another person because together we are more, we are richer , because this is the way of life , this is Christ’s way , this is the only way that leads you to the Kingdom of heaven !!
I invest my money into a child, in the form of bread and butter and some cocoa , and this brings interest, it can survive any inflation. And if I don’t annoy the child too much then perhaps he’ll be the one pushing me around in a wheelchair.
It is good to take a rest in the church, to just stand in the holy presence of God , let the infinite love of Christ to address you:
The basic rules of the Fraternity of the adoration of The blessed Sacrament :
Many people out of sheer ignorance , superficially talk about such a God, in whom I myself could not believe in either . Such a people can only be excused by their ignorance , however we really have to strive for, that whatever we speak about should be trustworthy and true. It is easy to intimidate a child with such a God who sees everything, hears everything and with this it is easy to terrify the ones with a more sensitive spirit. Yes God can really see everything, hear everything but His glance is not scrutinising , but kind-hearted, not judgemental but merciful and He is keeping an eye on us that by His divine care He can lead us on our lives’ journey.
If a child is born into my family , I am not going tell him, lets wait till they turn eighteen years old , so they can decide which group of people they want to belong to, what culture they want to live in , what language they want to speak , do they want to become Hungarian, German or Romanian but I teach them those values that are important to me . I do not want to share only my material possessions with my family but also my mental, spiritual treasures , my identity and my faith as well.
Whenever I say “ Our Father “ very often the thought flashes through my mind as to what sort of father I really am , but always happiness , light fills my heart , because even though since my early years my father has not been alive , I am still not an orphan , because I have a heavenly Father and I also strive that the ones living around me may not be orphans either .
The commandment of merciful love is not optional It is not one of the many liturgical and other different types of rules , but the only one , on the acceptance of which depends our earthly as well as our eternal life.
Despite all your good intentions you can easily hurt those closest to you and you can also get hurt: but be not afraid you are not so fragile and the Heavenly Father does not wince seeing all your small mistakes, stumbling . What He would like that you make good use of all the talents entrusted, given to you so that they may bring a yield fifty, a hundredfold and you do not bury the precious treasures in your care !
Christ by His suffering did not end human pain, suffering , but took away its senselessness , by it our humanity , love, self-denial maybe cleansed , strengthened . Zoltán Kodály put it beautifully :” on our life’s journey the crosses are like the ones in a musical score (sharp Signs) - they lift, raise us up ! “