There is only one way open to us : the way of love . Everything else is a no through road, that does not lead anywhere . If there would have been a shortcut through the hell of violence , then Christ at least on Good Friday would have stepped on this way -but He did not do it.
Father Csaba
translated by dr k.e.
Lets lift our children up high !! By lifting up your child high , if you keep them there , then even without a word you are saying , you are important to me , see I place you ahead of me , above me , because you are valuable , you are precious !! This gesture also says , that you can trust in yourself as well , you rest assured , because we accept you , we need your presence , we want you just as you are , lock, stock and barrel!!
You’ll see yourself beautiful, good, precious , when you can see in the eyes of the people around you reflect, mirror -when they look at you,- that you are beautiful , good , precious !! We are going to become great ourselves , when we dare , we can make each other feel great!! This beautiful February week-end lets present our children , each other with our love , with the most precious gift ours our free time !!
With love,
Father Csaba
translated by dr k.e.
It is unbelievably good, but still a heart -rending feeling to see, that we passed onto our children the values important to us, and they no longer need us , as much as before.
You started a process , like a stream a big river . Every man is like a wonderful, big ship, was born to proudly , plowing through the heavy waves even on stormy seas ,whilst carrying lives forth , and not for being protected from the high wind, waves to rust, disintegrate in shallow puddles along the shore . Certainly it is dangerous and difficult to break away from the shore , but the one who wants to grow up to get to know the Infinity and embrace their Creator , has to get started , they have to dare to accept the dusty road, the the strains of the journey , the struggle.
Father Csaba
translated by dr k.e.
I know, accidents can happen to a moving, journeying person . Despite his wish he can cause pain to his surrounding and he can also gat hurt, but be not afraid you were not made out of porcelain and God is not going to flinch seeing all your small mistakes, stumbling . He would like us to make good use of the talents entrusted to us , bringing a yield fifty, hundred fold and that we do not bury timidly the treasures entrusted to us . God knows very well , that our weaknesses , our fallibilities, our limitations again and again will hinder us .
He Himself fell on the way of the cross, but He stood up !
Father Csaba
translated by dr k.e.
A person can never see oneself as a whole completely , only parts of oneself:we have body parts that we can never get a glance of , perhaps just in a mirror , but this is only a picture not reality. One needs the impartial “eyes” of another person , that mirrors Jesus Christ’s merciful glance but one that does not play down evil . Our own eyes can be lenient, apologetic , but can also be cruel,merciless and concentrating only on disgrace, hideousness .
Father Csaba
translated by dr k.e.
According to the attitude of the world today the good meets with the wicked ,and wrestles with it. I believe that every man is good , I also know based on my experiences, that the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour . Unfortunately the devil has the power often to mislead us , to wound us . The Holy Scripture has a beautiful narrative when Jesus meets with the demon-possesed man of Garasene .
See , I interrupted all my work because you are important to me , because I love you ,says Christ to this man without a word.Yes , you are good , although there is something bad in you from what you can be freed , that you can discard it from yourself , so that you become pure, holy and true . Jesus’ gentleness , goodness, patience cleanses , makes a person free. Our aim is , that by loving each other , to liberate one another from the different forms of selfishness , avarice and all the manifestations of sin. We do not want to conquer, destroy each other , , but to liberate all to trust , love , for the joy of working as a team , that can move all of us forward .
I believe in the final victory of love . I believe , because it is good to be free , it is good to live with a pure heart , it is good to learn to find out what the freedom of living as the children of God means , to experience the world-forming power of unselfish love. I believe , that we have no other task more important than helping each other, to be liberated from all aspects, forms of sin.
2006.12.12
Böjte Csaba ofm
translated by dr k.e.
Everyone in their own right is unique and beautiful , God saw it fir this way , in His kind-heartedness , may His goodness be blessed . The richness of abundance !
All that I received belongs to God, but with love, goodness I can pass it own .
God’s opinion is what is important , He knows our intentions , our lives , the intrinsic values given to us, the talents and the rest is not really that important.
Unless you fall on your knees whole-heartedly before the Lord of the universe , then you really don’t have to do it.
Father Csaba
translated by dr k.e.
Be not afraid ! Fight for it, ask your Heavenly Father’s help !!
The evil spirit naturally will do everything , so that you'll be fearful, anxious, you’ll feel insignificant , that you won’t dare to undertake great tasks , you won’t want to move mountains . If it achieves this, it’ll be victorious and you’ll be the barren fig tree that Jesus cursed .Do not be conquered by little faith , fear , you are the child of God , you have the right to ask even for a miracle from your Father !!
With love,
Father Csaba
translated by dr k.e.
……if on a steep incline I am sliding downhill in the mud , it is not enough , if I decide I am not sliding further , but I have to take a step upward , so ultimately I do not fall low.
Father Csaba
translated by dr k.e.
A child has to remain who God wanted him/her to be : a beautiful gift . Every adult has to find their own way , hope , and it is not the child who has to give meaning to the parent’s life.
Father Csaba
translated by dr k.e.
I am telling the children many times , that I can protect them from the cold, hunger , wicked people , but there is one thing from which I cannot : themselves .
It is a a setback for me as well not only for them , when they make such decisions , that are bad for them . Naturally from us as well one after another such boys and girls whose marriage did not work out . Based on the law of averages this is logical, if twenty percent of the country will get the flu , somewhere in our homes as well the ratio will be similar.
Father Csaba
translated by dr k.e.
